Being there
- Clares CHAT

- Dec 9, 2025
- 2 min read
This CHOOSEDAY is about being there…
A couple of weeks ago I was invited to a Women’s Group to do an empowerment workshop. They had no idea what they were walking into when they signed up. All they knew was that the workshop was called Arrow Breaking! I watched them as they wrote things on the arrow that they wanted for themselves. And even that was a struggle for some. But they did it nonetheless. And then came the part when they break the arrow. As I demonstrated it, I could see the look on their faces. But those emotions were soon put to the side as the whole group rallied around and supported each person as they each broke their arrow. It was incredible to see. Not only had they turned up for themselves, but showed up for each other as well. The bond and camaraderie that this group of women has is so special. And it really to me thinking…
What does it take to be there for someone completely and totally without condition or judgement? And more importantly, what does it take for you to be there for your Self completely and totally without judgement? The simple conclusion that I have come to is it takes Love! It only takes Love to be there. I’m not talking about romantic love here. Unconditional love. Non-judgemental love. The kind of love that you can have for anyone and any thing. The love that brings joy and makes your heart sing. The love that makes you feel whole and connected to your authentic Self. I am talking about pure heart connection and the kind of love that makes you want to be there for others. However, whilst it is easy to be there for someone else, it is not so easy to be there for yourself, but you are the most important person to be there for!! So my challenge to you today… What are you doing to be there for your Self? 🔥🐉💚



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