Comparison

This CHOOSEDAY is all about comparison. It is a fact that at some point in our lives we have all compared ourselves to someone else. Why can’t I be as creative as her? Why is he so much better at whatever it is than me? Why can’t I be as free as them?

Well the short and simple answer is this… You can be as good as or as free as anyone, but it will not be like anyone else. It will be in your own unique way! Not one person on this planet is the same as anyone else. Even identical twins have different personalities and identities. When we compare ourselves to others we start to lose our own sense of being and it can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. This is not our fault though. It is a natural human tendency, rooted in our social need to understand ourselves and our place in our surroundings. Comparison is a fundamental process that helps us make sense of the world and our place in it, fulfilling our wiring for connection.

But how can we be true to ourselves when we are trying to be like someone else? How can we be authentic when we try to emulate others? The truth is, we can’t. And we will waste so many of our precious recourses in trying! Like our CHOOSEDAY image, it’s like trying to compare a triangle with a square. They will never be the same!!

So stay true to yourself. Be authentic in your offerings to the world. Only you can be you. And you are the most beautiful, unique being. And that is the only thing you should be comparing yourself to, and celebrating while you’re at it!! 🔥🐉💚

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